Ive always had him in my mind since Ive heard the news a couple of years ago, we went to school together, we were never in the same friend group just aquantainces, maybe 8th or 9th grade we were in band together and i was super mean to him, i dont know why, maybe i had a crush on him? And he paid attention to my friend? Then one day he told me( this is a cannon event in my life) He said to me" You're ugly, and all girls are suppose to be pretty, but you're not physically ugly but the way you are makes you ugly to me" that was the last day I was mean to him, definitely taught me a lesson all my life. Till this day I tell my children this, be kind to others always. He could have been mean and ugly to me, but he never was, not an unkind word ever. I wish i could have know him more, from embarrassment i always stayed away. God have him in his grace.